In true reality TV fashion, we quickly change focus from the dramedy of Nene and Kim (who, by the way, eerily made peace between the end of taping and the beginning of the reunion, part one. Hmm, blackmail much, Kim?) to that of Gretchen and Tamra, and their collective drama of last season.
Season five of The Real Housewives of Orange County premiered last night in true housewives’ fashion, with all the drama and cattiness you have come to expect from a futile – albeit alluring – reality show highlighting an exclusive blend of narcissistic California women.
I mean, really, it wouldn’t be nearly as entertaining with a group of self-possessed Amish housewives, would it?
So, while ball-busting Vicki and emasculated Donn appear to have made amends after nearly separating at the end of last season, this season they appear – so far- to be making a concerted effort to fill up love tanks and put their marriage back on track; meanwhile, another couple encounter trouble in paradise.
Vicki and Donn gave us our first glimpse into the crumbling marriage of Tamra and Simon, when Vicki proclaims that Simon is controlling Tamra and she’s oh-so-happy Don saved her from becoming a lesbian, referring to lesbians as “those people!” WTF? More proof that money cannot buy class. She’d fit right in with the cult of Joel Osteen given that he doesn’t believe homosexuals are God’s best.
Lynne has turned into quite the businesswoman this season showcasing her cuffs at boutiques and trunk shows, or, has she? Perhaps not enough to keep her family from being evicted, but it’s wonderful that she has a passion of her own to focus on. Why she would refer to herself as turning into Vicki is a little…um…insane, though. WHO, in their right mind, wants to emulate that woman? I think Vicki has an incredible work ethic, but it comes at the expense of her family, and that, to me, would not be worth it.
Jeana, apparently broke, reportedly asked Vicki to borrow money after the real estate market took a plunge and her earning potential decreased, and Vicki’s refusal to loan money has put a strain on their friendship. First off, does Jeana not realize that in asking Vicki , of all people, for money to save her $5 million dollar home she gave that woman yet another reason to feel superior? Obviously, Jeana will be leaving the show for the majority of this season due to financial difficulties, however, she is reportedly returning for a sixth season.
Gretchen has had quite the year in the spotlight - from dealing with Jeff’s death to the distressing, confrontational reunion show, and then the nude photos of her mysteriously appearing online, to her dubious coupling with Slimy Slade. And, through it all, her very public and increasingly toxic battle with Tamra has played out in the tabloids, on Facebook, and Twitter. But, she is an adult and her business is just that – her own business. I will never understand why certain people – who are in absolutely no position to point fingers - feel entitled to pass judgment, having the audacity to proclaim they do not want to be associated with her because of her very private, and personal, adult choices. I mean, look at Carrie Prejean - the dignified, all American girl next-door who presented herself as wholesome and conservative, (and judgmental) when in fact, she is anything but, as we are now discovering since a sex tape scandal has left her publicly humiliated.
In all honesty, the novelty has worn off for me. I’m not certain I even want to continue watching this season. It’s stale. The shameful manner in which these ladies conduct themselves and behave toward one another is repulsive. To quote former Clinton Secretary of State and UN Ambassador, Madeleine Albright, “there’s a place in hell reserved for women who don’t help other women!”
I don’t believe viciousness toward, gossiping about, tearing down and demoralizing members of your sisterhood is considered helpful, empowering, or supportive conduct.
I hope the arrival of newest housewife, Alexis Bellino, can offset the condescension with a little decorum.
Or, I’m outta here.
Until next week!
2 comments:
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I suppose I should start watching this show...it sounds intriguing! :)
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